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Love Bombing – the Red Flags that I Missed

Love Bombing – the Red Flags that I  Missed

Love bombing, or idealization stage, is a distinct phase of the relationship with a narcissist. I had a feeling that I went to fast with the narcissist that I dealt with (the N), but I went ahead with it anyway. These are the prime examples of love bombing; he actually said and did these things to me.

Narcissistic Trick that You Should Know: Fake Crying

Narcissistic Trick that You Should Know: Fake Crying

It took me around 5 years to figure out how the Narcissist (the N) that I was married to execute a fake cry. He didn't cry a lot to me, but when he did, it didn't feel right to me deep down inside. I didn't know why I felt the way I felt, so I kept carrying on, but now I do. I felt that way because it was all fake crying on his part. My body knew, but my mind couldn't understand his behavior until the last couple of times I saw him crying.

Duping Delight is a Sign of the Narcissist’s Lying

Duping Delight is a Sign of the Narcissist’s Lying

Narcissists feel a rush when they are able to manipulate and deceive other people, which reinforced the narcissist’s perceived sense of superiority and power. Narcissists are addicted to this rush, and they can’t help but showing this facial expression called duping delight when they feel like they are successful at conning someone. Duping delight is the uncontrollable outer expression of hidden pleasure derived from the perception of being able to elude responsibilities with lies and manipulation. I saw duping delight in the form of a quick smirk flashed across the face of the narcissist (the N) that I dealt with....

Narcissistic Projection: “I accuse you of what I do”

Narcissistic Projection: “I accuse you of what I do”

Accusations from narcissists are actually confession. I wish I would have known about this little golden tip earlier in my dealing with the Narcissist (the N), it would have saved me so much time trying to figure out what he was doing. With hindsight now, I realized that pretty much everything he accused me of doing, he was doing it himself. It became so clear to me what he was doing and exactly when he was doing it when I correlated what he said with other evidences that I had. During the time of dating him, the N accused me...

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