I never would have thought that the person I have been married to has the capabilities to lie about anything and everything without blinking an eye. Only until later that I realize the narcissist (the N) that I deal with is a professional liar. He lies even when he doesn’t need to. Lying is a tool that is often used by narcissists to gain narcissistic supply, to feed their egos, and to help them twist their narratives to protect their image. As long as the narcissists gain something from telling lies, it’s not frivolous to them. To them it’s worth...
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Dealing with Grief from Narcissistic Abuse
Grief comes visiting me often during my day. Like a thunderstorm in summer’s night, it comes unexpectedly and devastatingly so with not much warning. I would be doing laundry or watching a movie when I was reminded of something that happened and grief hit me like a blow to my heart. Tears would come out of nowhere, and I would silently wipe them away. When will this end?
The Most Important Choice in My Life: Should I stay, or Should I go?
One of the major decision that I have to make during the ordeal with the narcissist is whether or not I should stay in the relationship. Do I want to be the "Stepford wife"?
Narcissists’ Words and Actions are Inconsistent
Narcissists' words are cheap and empty. They use words to trap us in. Their actions, however, are probably the best indicators we have to identify them.
Triangulation
Triangulation is a manipulative technique where the toxic person such as a narcissist uses a third person to influence the relationship between you and him/her.
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